‘Hundred promises, not one fulfilled’ – Bella reacts to Sheggz breakup

Big Brother Naija star Bella Okagbue has broken her silence on her breakup with fellow reality TV star, Sheggz, saying she eventually chose to speak after watching people tell her story for her.

Bella, who addressed the development in a series of posts on her Instagram Story, said she initially remained silent because she believed some aspects of their relationship were better kept private.

“For the past few days, I have watched people tell my story for me. I stayed silent because I believed some things deserved to remain private, but my silence should never be mistaken for guilt,” she wrote.

The reality TV star said she genuinely loved Sheggz and defended their relationship because she believed in it at the time.

According to her, she also chose to give him a second chance because she believed people could grow and change.

“I loved genuinely. I defended the relationship because I believed in it at the time, and I chose to give someone I loved a second chance because I believe people can grow and change. That was my choice, and I own it,” she said.

Bella, however, noted that believing someone could change did not mean she was obligated to wait indefinitely for that change.

She also suggested that the version of Sheggz known publicly was different from the person she experienced privately.

“The person everyone experiences publicly isn’t always the person you experience privately,” she stated.

Addressing discussions surrounding marriage and Sheggz’s plans to marry her, Bella said wanting marriage with someone she loved should not be interpreted as desperation.

She maintained that knowing when to walk away from a relationship was an important decision, adding that a marriage proposal or ring could not solve problems within a…